Paper Experiments for Kids

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I did these easy paper experiments with the kids this morning.
It was a lot of fun for them to follow the instructions and find out the end result.

Here's what we did:

The kids weren't all that impressed with that since it was pretty obvious that's what would happen.  But that was simply a springboard into the next activity:

They thought that was pretty neat, but then we took it a step further.

They got a huge kick out of that!  They thought it was pretty amazing to start with one piece of paper and end up with two loops joined together!

I'm working hard to keep their minds and their bodies healthy, and one way I'm doing that is to make sure they are taking probiotics daily.

We had been using a powdered probiotic, but were never faithful with it because it had to be mixed with their other food and they weren't crazy about the taste.

When Culturelle® Kids Probiotic offered to send me some chewable probiotic tablets just for kids in exchange for sharing our experience, I gladly took them up on it!

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When my kids are healthy, they are happier and better able to participate in activities like the ones they did in this post!  That's why I'm making it a priority to make sure they regularly take immune supporting probiotics like the ones found in Culturelle.*

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* These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

††Based on the number of Lactobacillus GG clinical studies, as of August 2014.

The Easiest Way to Get Those Taxes Done!

It's that time of year again, folks; it's tax season.

If you're anything like me, the very thought of filing taxes is enough to bring about a mixture of both excitement and dread. On one hand we can't help but thinking of the nifty tax returns we'll be receiving within just a few short weeks but on the other we can't avoid the feelings of chagrin when faced with picking which company to go to with for our tax related needs.  There is such a variety of ways to go about completing this arduous task, and many of those solutions come with a hefty price tag.

My husband and I have tried many different options for our taxes over the years, starting with old fashioned pencil and paper, then trying out a number of online services.  When we found TurboTax we stuck with it every year and haven't had to look elsewhere since!  It is truly the easiest, most stress-free way we have found to do our taxes!  (And did I mention you can file for free?!)

As a tried and true tax preparation company TurboTax has been trusted with their customers' finances for 22 years. With knowledgeable, friendly accountant experts to help you with your tax filing needs, TurboTax is available to help you get the most out of filing your taxes; better still, TurboTax offers you their services without ever having to leave your home!

As a champion of hard-working Americans, TurboTax believes that you shouldn't have to come in to work with their experts in order to successfully file your taxes.  Therefore, they've made the experience more user friendly by providing their online services; from the comfort of your own home you can now prepare your own taxes and pick a custom package that best suits your needs this tax filing season. Better still, if you encounter any problems during the process their experts are still available 24/7 should you need additional help.

With the new healthcare laws in effect this year, taxes may be more confusing than ever!  TurboTax has that aspect covered for you also.  There's no need to worry that you're getting the paperwork done correctly.

TurboTax has several different tax preparation packages from which to choose and when you're all done and ready to submit they'll even double check your taxes for you to make sure you never miss a single cent on your tax returns.

One of the best things about working with TurboTax these days is the Absolute Zero feature: the No-Cost Tax Return.

Just like the name states, with Absolute Zero, you don't have to pay a single dime out of your pocket to file your taxes. That's $0 Federal, $0 State, $0 to file for over 60 million Americans as of January 8th 2015.

TurboTax has gone above and beyond to make sure that the burden is lifted from its customers shoulders during their tax preparations. As the leader in tax preparation, TurboTax recognizes that you work hard for every penny you earn and that Absolute Zero is vital to their customers.

What do you get with Absolute Zero?

Absolute Zero is the same as last year's very popular Federal Free Edition, but with even more new free features.  Additional features include the following:

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If you've been stressed about the time or money that preparing your tax return is going to cost you, I encourage you to give TurboTax a try.  It has truly saved us a great deal of both over the years!

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

Valentine’s Gift Basket for Grandparents

One fun thing we like to do with the kids at Valentine's Day is have them give a small gift to their grandparents.

This year, we were given the opportunity to pick out some things at Family Christian to make a small gift basket for them.

We found a plaque in the clearance section that will go nicely in Grandma's newly painted kitchen!  We also found some lovely notecards with the words to “Great is they Faithfulness” on them.

For Grandpa, we found Valentine's Day chocolates with Bible verses on them and a coffee cup to go with it.

But of course the part that Grandparents love the best is the pictures of their grandkids!

Everything we do around here has to be super-simple, but we strive for cuteness all at the same time!

So I snapped one “regular” picture of the kids and glued it onto construction paper.  I wrote We Love You…

That was the front of the card.

For the inside of the card, I snapped a picture of the kids holding their arms open wide, glued it to the inside, and wrote “This Much!”

I am sure Grandma and Grandpa are going to love their gift from the kids!

Organizing the Gluten Free Pantry

Going gluten free wasn't terribly hard once I found some go-to recipes.

There are plenty of recipes for me to continue to enjoy pizza, pancakes, muffins, etc. made with gluten free flour.

The problem I have is not at all with the way the food tastes.  The problem is where to put the million types of flour I must use to make the food!

Sweet rice flour, white rice flour, brown rice flour,  tapioca flour, potato starch, xanthan gum…where does it end?!

And more importantly, where do I put all this stuff?

There were miscellaneous bags and containers everywhere!

I knew I could not leave things as they were, and I needed a quick, easy, and pretty solution!

I go through a canister of protein powder about once a month, so I started saving them several months ago.

This gave me uniform canisters for my huge assortment of ingredients.  They are the perfect size too!

To make them pretty and help me identify the contents, I got these adorable chalk board labels from Wayfair and applied them to the canisters.

I still have more things in loose bags, so I will continue to save the canisters from my protein powder.

This was the perfect way for me to keep everything neatly organized and nice looking!

I apologize for the quality of the photos – it is very dark in my pantry.  But hopefully you are able to tell well enough what you need to do to get all those ingredients organized!

I've also ordered a couple of wire vegetable bins to use in my pantry instead of unceremoniously throwing the bags of potatoes and onions in there.  They haven't arrived yet, but I'm excited about how much cuter that's going to look than what I've got now.

And this one is perfect for storing all the non-food items like zip-top bags and plastic wrap:

Do you have any problem areas in your gluten free pantry?  Do these look like solutions that would solve them?

Disclosure: I was provided with a gift card to Wayfair.com in exchange for this post.

What Does it Mean to Parent the Heart?

Parenting the heart…

That sounds like a pretty phrase, but what does it really mean?

I believe there is a vitally important difference between teaching children to obey you and teaching children to do what is right.

Teaching a child to obey means that when you teach your child to clean his room, he does — as long as you tell him to do it and stand there to make sure he does.
Parenting your child's heart means that your child cleans his room on his own because he has learned the value of diligence in his work.

Teaching a child to obey means that your child shares with his friends – when you tell him he needs to share.
Parenting your child's heart means that your child shares without being told because he has learned that God wants us to be kind to others and think of their needs before our own.

Teaching a child to obey means your child turns off the video game — when you tell him to.
Parenting a child's heart means your child turns off the video game without being told because you've taught him the value of using time wisely.

Don't get me wrong.  It is important that parents teach their children to obey. 

But if we're not careful, we can end up focusing on our children's actions instead of their heart attitudes.

We are satisfied that they pick up their toys when we tell them to.  We are satisfied that they share their toys when reminded.  We are satisfied that they turn off the video game when told (and happy when they do it without complaining!)

But what happens when you're not there to tell them to clean up or share or turn off the video game?

When your daughter is grown and married, will her house be a wreck because you're not there to tell her to clean it up?

When your grown children have friends going through a hard time, will they pass them by without a second thought because you're not there to tell them to think of others?

When your son is out on his own will he waste all his time on foolish pursuits because you're not there to remind him to use his time wisely?

When we teach our children to obey, we must teach them the Biblical principles behind what we're telling them to do.  We must also help them understand other life situations to which they can apply that Biblical principle.

When you tell your child every little thing he is supposed to do rather than placing the responsibility for his actions directly on him, you are failing to develop that child's conscience.  (And after his salvation, you are failing to teach him how to listen to the Holy Spirit's promptings.)

A sensitive conscience and a listening ear to the voice of the Holy Spirit will empower your child to do what is right on his own, without being reminded by mom and dad every time.

Maybe you've never thought about child training this way before.  Maybe you knew you should be parenting your child's heart, but lacked the practical instruction to do so.

I was recently given the opportunity to review a brand new book entitled: Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told.

I normally do not do book reviews on the blog since I just do not have the time to commit to it.  However, this one really caught my eye as one that I'd like to read, so I decided to go ahead and do the review.

I am so glad I did!

I have something highlighted on almost every page of this book!  There are so many practical ideas that I want to implement in our family.

For instance, after reading this book my husband and I decided it would be wise to implement a chore chart for our children.  There are several things they are expected to do each morning before they start their day.  It's not a reward or punishment system. They simply cannot come out of their room until their jobs are done.  If the job is in another room of the house they must complete it before they can do anything else.

Rather than expecting them to remember everything or tell them what to do over and over, we gave them a visual reminder – a chart that hangs on the wall in their room.  Now the ball is in their court.  It's up to them to get the work done without being told.  If they want to come out of their room they will get the work done.

Parenting this way takes lots of work and consistency.  It's not a magical solution that is going to revolutionize your home overnight.  But practice makes perfect – literally!  The book contains activities that you can do with your children to practice exercising the conscience until doing right becomes a habit in  your child's life.

You can order the book right here.

What changes are you going to make in your home to help direct your child's heart rather than focusing only on his actions?

Taming the Chaos of the Spring Cleaning Routine

Guest post by Michelle from Blooming With Joy.

It’s time to clear the clutter and begin spring cleaning!

Although it's work, I love the feeling of a freshly spring cleaned home. My problem isn’t finding motivation for spring cleaning because I enjoy getting everything back in place. My issue is keeping things in order after my spring cleaning list is completed.

See, I have this feast or famine mentality. I clean like mad woman to check off all my boxes every day. As soon as the ink has dried on the check-list, it’s time to the start cleaning all over. Inevitably, I will skip a beat, fall out of sync, and completely give up for a week at a time, or longer. This ongoing cycle implies I, personally, am a failure. If you’re like me, sometime failure lurks like a dark cloud overhead. Let go of the guilt!  Cleaning is what we do; it does not define us a person!

How to Tame the Chaos

My definition of clean was nothing less than perfect, spotless, everything in its place. I have learned that I live in my home. Striving for a model home with kids will only lead to frustration. To tame the chaos I needed to redefine the meaning of clean and change my philosophy towards cleaning. My new mentality eased my need for perfection and turned my focus to keeping the clutter moving and laundry fluffed.

Less is more: Figure out what you can realistically accomplish in a day, and then work on those chores. It is not possible to do it all. Your kids should be helping with chores of their own too!

Spring Cleaning Routine: Instead of deep cleaning once a year, do it more frequently to catch extra messes. Set aside time during a break week or take off a special day for a deeper cleaning.

Here is an example of how to tame the chaos:

• I would like the playroom organized. On a daily basis I just want to see the floor. Actually, I finally gave up and tossed the idea of having a playroom in our home. Each child keeps their toys in their room and they are then responsible for their room.
• I would like a spotless kitchen. Instead I focus on running the dishwasher and wiping the counter.
• I would like to do the laundry on a daily basis. I have found that doing it weekly often works better.

Doing a little cleaning every day does not result in a perfect home, but it keeps me happier and our home healthier.

Motivating Kids after Spring Cleaning

After I learned to tame the chaos, my challenge was finding a good chore routine for after spring cleaning. So I researched chore charts but none fit the flexibility of my life. I might schedule to clean the bathrooms on Wednesday but reality says it might be Friday before I get them cleaned. This was frustrating. So I came up with a Chore Card System that works really well and offers the flexibility I need as a homeschooling mom! My new eBook Motivate Kids to Clean: Chore Card System has a fully customizable chore cards and point system, inspiration for Mom, how to make a simple schedule, and more.

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Encouragement for Mom

Do you struggle with check-list guilt or waver between perfection and chaos? Do you struggle with the temptation to replay the events over and over in your mind as self-punishment arises? My friend, God doesn’t love you anymore when you are perfect nor does he love you any less after you’ve blown it!

God’s very nature is Love.

He loved us before we became super mom and He loves us after we realize we are not. A woman’s superpower persona has existed for all of time. You are not alone in feeling tempted to avoid God when it seems your accomplishments lacking. Look what Jesus says to Super Hero Martha:

“Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”  (Luke 10:41-42)

Good things can be a distraction from greater things. There are things we need to tend to. However, we cannot discern our priorities clearly until we have been filled up by God’s word.

To truly tame the chaos of spring cleaning, make your quiet time daily priority number one.

I pray you begin Blooming With Joy through every chaotic moment, disappointment, and mess!

Michelle Pohl